it's raining again!!! ARH!! had to rush home to get my windows closed, thank god my maid closed it for me in time. ^^ just came back from a chat with my friend cedric, and what a chat that was. Supposedly to be just a 10mins smoking session turned into a 2 1/2 hr chat of his problems. It's quite interesting how things turned out for someone. "what i want vs what i need"
For me, his current problem is that he do not know what he want and what he really needs, as a fella like myself, stuck in early 20s with O levels and nothing else, in NS and wake up call just hit in his face.. he's a really poor thing; dunno what he wants. A career with money? a job to satisfy him? just pure cash irregardless of job type? friends? what kind of friends does he want? just chill out friends? friends with benefits? the questions are endless.
my reply to him was simple, it boils down to one, "oneself"
when you know what you want, you'll do it irregardless of the hinderence and problems that might arise and fall upon you. when you are sure of your goals, age/money/politics/family/time/etc are not a factor in your goal, why? simple, you'll find route and means to overcome it.
Too old? when are you too old to learn something new?
Too poor? part-time jobs are available everywhere
politics? why do you want to get involve in it? just mind your own business
family? they are always there for you!!
etc? what other excuses are you giving yourself? stop it!
i really hope he can find the answers to all his questions, sometimes the easiest way out of a problem is to stop thinking about it and action. "dreams are always dreams unless you turn it into reality" for anyone out there reading my blog and if you are facing something similar, just remember this, nothing is impossible if you are determined. *smiles*

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